Grow Old or Grow Up? You Choose!

We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day.

You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.

We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.

If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old.

If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change.

Have no regrets.

The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.

往事只能回味 =)

第一次出去 coffee island 吃了晚餐

Paradise beach - 曾经是你最爱去的地方，听海

第一次到我家 去吃了肉骨茶 然后车胎爆了 其实那时我第一次帮人换轮胎 可是还算成功

多亏文捷，我们彼此相处的时间多了，上课，吃饭，做功课，熬夜，看鬼戏 =) 

十二月假期，跟你家人去了云顶，这应该是我最开心的一刻吧，很爱你了！

新年前夕，我们吃了晚饭，开始准备到数。说了新年快乐，我抱了你，也多说了一句我爱你，你刮了我一巴掌，问我真的吗，我说真的，然后就这样我们开始了 =)

第二学期的开始，我们也开始同一组做功课，成绩都不错 =)

一天早上，你脸色凝重地出现在我面前，说你的房间进贼了，带你去报警，做了身份证，驾驶执照，买了新电脑

你每晚都很害怕，我也担心，最后决定搬家了

一天早上下雨了，你的车胎又爆了，我们只好穿着雨衣，在绵绵细雨下，骑着摩托车上学 =) 幸福，因为你一路都抱着我

搬到了 batu lancang 又是人生新的一页 美好的回忆

你说，在那儿有了自己家的感觉，好开心

菜市又很近， 你应该会时常下厨了 =) 终于有机会尝尝你的厨艺

果然，从家里搬来许多烹饪器材，好几天都吃了你煮的东西，幸福开心，虽然有时失败了 =P 

你们有吃过 韩国辛辣 ABC Spaghetti 吗？ 我可吃过！ =)
还有就是我二十年来都没吃过的‘罗汉斋’

突然间，你开始想减肥了，因为很多人说你增肥了 =P 我们开始放学后跑步，还记得小白，一只流浪狗，每次都会陪我们跑几圈 =)

我们也突然爱上了羽球，一星期都会打一次，我们两一组，文捷就每天换组人 =P

一天，你突然说要学骑摩托，我也让你学骑了。第一天，你开心的笑说！很容易，我一天学换一档！ 一星期就会了！ 果然，你会骑了

你父母会反对你骑摩托，我们想了一个理由，如果世界末日那天，前面只有一条很长的直路，旁边有一辆摩托，你们会要跑还是骑摩托? 哈哈 征服了 =)

第三学期，开始学喝酒了，很担心，因为你很容易醉，我告诉自己，不会让你一个人喝，我会陪你，可是我绝对不喝 =P 好几晚，你醉了，说了许多好笑的话，我放你回宿舍让你睡觉，隔天跟你说你所说的笑话，你终会说 ‘我没说！’ 可爱 

有时晚上，我们都空闲，就会骑着摩托，到 UPR 附近看人妖，顺便兜风，也会时常到旧关直角吃水果，兜到你累了，就自然会想睡觉 =)

Cocktail Presentation, 我们想了一个小插曲戏剧，以便娱乐大家，效果不错 =)

年终考试，我去了你家住一个星期，熬夜烧香，读得有点辛苦，可是拿到成绩时，觉得一切都值得 =)
最后，我最爱的时刻，难免是跟你拥抱的时候，你总会跳上来，把脚勾着我的腰，还问我‘我重吗？’ 可是我从来都没诚实的回答 =P

2013年1月1日， 我们彼此以男女朋友身份的最后一次晚餐，也是我们一周年纪念日 =) 

往事只能回味，回味时，我笑得特别开心，谢谢你，施琪。 我会勇敢地走向我的人生 =)

People We Meet In Life =)

People changes spontaneously, environment around us changes spontaneously, a lot of things change just without our knowing, in order to fit ourselves in this CRUEL world, we cannot expect the world to become what we wanted it to be, we cannot change the world, we have to change our attitudes toward our life. The life that everyone in this world lives in. I have lived 20 years in this world, before this, i never had any thought on resolution of myself, I am truly satisfied with what I had, what I met and who I am. But the past year which is 2012, cannot be denied that I had a wonderful moment along this year, but things changed at the very last moment, which gave me a big lesson in life. We are all alone in this world, no one can be with us until the very last moment, even our own parents and families, we might be alone, when we are dead, even they have accompanied us for some times. People comes and goes, this should be happened, because we are on the Earth? Think positive! Live positive! =) Everything is not that bad actually!

When someone shows you who they are, you’re supposed to accept it, but sometimes we don’t want to. We want to believe that a person we care for can be better, so we hope that the ugly we saw was just a rare bad moment, and a flash of their unpleasant side. But when one incident turns into two, and two to three, and so on, we’ve got to stop kidding ourselves and accept the facts. It truly sucks when we thought we saw the sparkly glisten of a friendship or relationship, but it was nothing more than fool’s gold.

爱与被爱，很容易； 相爱就难了

真正的爱情，不是付出全部，而是让自己成为更好的人。爱一个人没有回应，与其乞讨爱情，不如骄傲地走开。在爱情里，最在乎的一方，最后往往输得最惨。找个 让你开心一辈子的人，才是爱情的目标。最好的，往往就是在你身边最久的。有时候，一个人可以在前一分钟，很爱很爱你，后一分钟就变得不爱了，原因永远不会出现，只能傻傻的接受。所以,选爱人不需要太多标准,只要这三样:不骗你,不伤害你,和陪着你...　而这样的一个人，很难找到吧。我所遇到的爱情，都只是一个圆圈，一开始很好，新鲜，快乐，很多爱，要到终点时，另一方终会累了、觉得不新鲜了、没话题说了。就这样，兜完了一圈，结束了。我相信另一方也会开始新的一‘圈’，不停的重复，直到一天成熟了，长大了，明白了什么是爱，想安定下来了，才会停止兜圈圈，那时候已是责任的爱，不时会说闷，没新鲜感的爱。这正是我要的爱。

你们都明白这个人生阶段了吗？不明白的话很大的可能就这样分手了

夫妻之间如果要维系一个婚姻或一个情感，要面对一个过程当中的失落。也就是婚姻一开始是爱情的产物，可是在进入婚姻跟真实的生活以后，你为了维持有这个婚姻跟这个让你安家、安居乐业的这个基础，我们通常要克服一个内心上的失落。你要对那种激情，或者是那种幻想的彩色泡泡要说再见，可是那个就好像是让内心一个永远的渴望死掉，你就知道，我这一辈子就是这样，就是跟这个家伙了，没有办法更浪漫更好了。但是我们之间可不可以经营出一种不一样的趣味，或者尽量在这个范围里面去活化，可它无论怎么活化，无论怎么有趣味，也还是在现实的趣味。它跟那种你每次新交一个女朋友，新交一个男朋友，那种搞不懂她，她搞不懂我，会不会在她心目中我被看成神，那种激情一定是没有。可是这个失落没有人教我们怎么去度过。
我觉得婚姻的进程里面有很残酷，就是你要对这种事情说再见的部分，那走不过的人，通常他会换一个人，假如老婆离婚了，不要他了，还是老公不要她，他就也许跟那个外遇结婚，又重来一遍。外遇的女朋友也变成老婆，他又想再往外看，但是老了，有些地方不管用了，这时候他才真正去面对那个失落... 所以每一个人都要面对这个阶段，我们何不在这个婚姻里面就把它面对，把它走过，为什么一定要一而再，再而三换到最后才知道说其实一开始....... 
我有一个长辈曾经跟我讲过，他是有一个很好的老婆，当初是那种万中选一，他是去把人家校花抢来的。结果他后来外遇了，然后外遇之后他离婚，跟外遇结婚，但是他跟我们这些晚辈讲说：“那是顺序颠倒而已。我若先跟外遇结婚，如果后面才遇到我原配，我会被她吸引，我会跟她外遇，因为那是我个人的进程没有完成...” 

Books and People

New semester has started, new semester but the last one for me.. Everyone is having a magical power to study and work harder, it is our last semester and it is time to give all out they said.. I feel that too actually, but it has been the same as last time, revision before exam.. LOL.. I have a lot of free time nowadays due to a quite blank schedule.. =) I have time to play basketball, jogging and do push up.. The most importantly, I spend more time with my friends, closed one and the not so closed one.. But what I found out? People nowadays spend more time communicate with electronic stuff than an ALIVE PERSON? laptops and phones, people they do not know they can talk like best friends.. HAHA.. Funny? But I did think of that, if they didnt talk to the electronic stuff, what can they talk to us? 


Happy Studying To ME! =)

Feelings...

These few weeks are my school holiday, should be a good one indeed.. should be? means that this holiday is not that good huh? Yes.. Something was out of my expectation.. I feel that things are changing in my life, unusual, unpredictable.. Honestly, I am trying to adapt the changes but I am missing the feelings before the changes.. I can't change things that happened already right? I will try my best to adapt.. I just can say that, I will try to be who I am at the past, try to do what I used to do, these may make me feel better =) The problem is, when I do something that I used to do, the result is not the result that I used to get.. weird huh? I am going to Bukit Merah Water Park tomorrow, wish that it would be a good one.. Haha.. I am not EMO-ING, this is just my feeling.. It will be gone soon I think.. LOL Good Night World.. 


By the way, I feel good because I have met Chung Ling friends in this holiday and we hanged out! =) Thanks to Jin Jie, Hock Sheng, Chen Yew, Edwin, Wei Loon, Sfong, Jie Ying, Sihan, Jane, Spunky and the others.. You all made my holiday a beautiful one.