Distance Love Ship

Long Distance Relationship isn’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see the person when you want to or when you most need them. You can’t hug, you can’t hold hands, and you can’t kiss. You lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, your relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else.

You learn to communicate, because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.

You learn to trust, because you can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.

You learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.

And lastly, you learn to appreciate.

So often, we take for granted the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there.

But when you only have a limited amount of time with a person,

you learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment you have with them.

When you finally see that person after weeks or months of seeing them only through a computer screen,

It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.

When you've waited for something so long and you finally have it, you cherish it. The key to a long-distance relationship is faith.

If both of you are not willing to give up, if both of you are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of you or both of you fall.

“Distance isn't for the fearful, it’s for the bold ".

It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.

It’s for knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough.”

This is absolutely TRUE! 

My Story - Her Words

一开始遇见时, 感觉像找到了灵魂的另一半, 童话爱情故事里自己当上了主角。这故事就上演了一年, 谁还记得是谁先说永远的爱我? 因为过了太久我们都不记得当初曾经让我为你融化的那些温柔。童话故事来到了边缘, 公主都走了, 他是否该划下句点。如果一个能够爱上你的一切, 却在最后嫌弃你的一切, 那就让他走吧。因为此人肯定不懂珍惜, 不管谁来到他的生命里, 他会豁出生命爱个死去和来, 在他习惯了别人令人可爱的优点之后, 又将他抛弃了。被抛弃的人请你别灰心, 不是你不够好, 不是你成不了他的茶, 是他喝不起你这杯茶, 是他不懂你苦中带甘的特色。总会有一天, 会有那么一个品茶人来到你面前, 不需要山盟海誓, 不需要你淘金献宝, 他会与你过一生。是你的, 怎么拆都拆不掉; 不是你的, 怎么留都留不住。爸爸说过一句名言: 爱情真的不需要轰轰烈烈的。

By: KANGKUNG YIYING EVELYN, a friend that I will thank God for arranging our meeting in life.

Grow Old or Grow Up? You Choose!

We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day.

You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.

We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.

If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old.

If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change.

Have no regrets.

The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.

往事只能回味 =)

第一次出去 coffee island 吃了晚餐

Paradise beach - 曾经是你最爱去的地方，听海

第一次到我家 去吃了肉骨茶 然后车胎爆了 其实那时我第一次帮人换轮胎 可是还算成功

多亏文捷，我们彼此相处的时间多了，上课，吃饭，做功课，熬夜，看鬼戏 =) 

十二月假期，跟你家人去了云顶，这应该是我最开心的一刻吧，很爱你了！

新年前夕，我们吃了晚饭，开始准备到数。说了新年快乐，我抱了你，也多说了一句我爱你，你刮了我一巴掌，问我真的吗，我说真的，然后就这样我们开始了 =)

第二学期的开始，我们也开始同一组做功课，成绩都不错 =)

一天早上，你脸色凝重地出现在我面前，说你的房间进贼了，带你去报警，做了身份证，驾驶执照，买了新电脑

你每晚都很害怕，我也担心，最后决定搬家了

一天早上下雨了，你的车胎又爆了，我们只好穿着雨衣，在绵绵细雨下，骑着摩托车上学 =) 幸福，因为你一路都抱着我

搬到了 batu lancang 又是人生新的一页 美好的回忆

你说，在那儿有了自己家的感觉，好开心

菜市又很近， 你应该会时常下厨了 =) 终于有机会尝尝你的厨艺

果然，从家里搬来许多烹饪器材，好几天都吃了你煮的东西，幸福开心，虽然有时失败了 =P 

你们有吃过 韩国辛辣 ABC Spaghetti 吗？ 我可吃过！ =)
还有就是我二十年来都没吃过的‘罗汉斋’

突然间，你开始想减肥了，因为很多人说你增肥了 =P 我们开始放学后跑步，还记得小白，一只流浪狗，每次都会陪我们跑几圈 =)

我们也突然爱上了羽球，一星期都会打一次，我们两一组，文捷就每天换组人 =P

一天，你突然说要学骑摩托，我也让你学骑了。第一天，你开心的笑说！很容易，我一天学换一档！ 一星期就会了！ 果然，你会骑了

你父母会反对你骑摩托，我们想了一个理由，如果世界末日那天，前面只有一条很长的直路，旁边有一辆摩托，你们会要跑还是骑摩托? 哈哈 征服了 =)

第三学期，开始学喝酒了，很担心，因为你很容易醉，我告诉自己，不会让你一个人喝，我会陪你，可是我绝对不喝 =P 好几晚，你醉了，说了许多好笑的话，我放你回宿舍让你睡觉，隔天跟你说你所说的笑话，你终会说 ‘我没说！’ 可爱 

有时晚上，我们都空闲，就会骑着摩托，到 UPR 附近看人妖，顺便兜风，也会时常到旧关直角吃水果，兜到你累了，就自然会想睡觉 =)

Cocktail Presentation, 我们想了一个小插曲戏剧，以便娱乐大家，效果不错 =)

年终考试，我去了你家住一个星期，熬夜烧香，读得有点辛苦，可是拿到成绩时，觉得一切都值得 =)
最后，我最爱的时刻，难免是跟你拥抱的时候，你总会跳上来，把脚勾着我的腰，还问我‘我重吗？’ 可是我从来都没诚实的回答 =P

2013年1月1日， 我们彼此以男女朋友身份的最后一次晚餐，也是我们一周年纪念日 =) 

往事只能回味，回味时，我笑得特别开心，谢谢你，施琪。 我会勇敢地走向我的人生 =)

People We Meet In Life =)

People changes spontaneously, environment around us changes spontaneously, a lot of things change just without our knowing, in order to fit ourselves in this CRUEL world, we cannot expect the world to become what we wanted it to be, we cannot change the world, we have to change our attitudes toward our life. The life that everyone in this world lives in. I have lived 20 years in this world, before this, i never had any thought on resolution of myself, I am truly satisfied with what I had, what I met and who I am. But the past year which is 2012, cannot be denied that I had a wonderful moment along this year, but things changed at the very last moment, which gave me a big lesson in life. We are all alone in this world, no one can be with us until the very last moment, even our own parents and families, we might be alone, when we are dead, even they have accompanied us for some times. People comes and goes, this should be happened, because we are on the Earth? Think positive! Live positive! =) Everything is not that bad actually!

When someone shows you who they are, you’re supposed to accept it, but sometimes we don’t want to. We want to believe that a person we care for can be better, so we hope that the ugly we saw was just a rare bad moment, and a flash of their unpleasant side. But when one incident turns into two, and two to three, and so on, we’ve got to stop kidding ourselves and accept the facts. It truly sucks when we thought we saw the sparkly glisten of a friendship or relationship, but it was nothing more than fool’s gold.

爱与被爱，很容易； 相爱就难了

真正的爱情，不是付出全部，而是让自己成为更好的人。爱一个人没有回应，与其乞讨爱情，不如骄傲地走开。在爱情里，最在乎的一方，最后往往输得最惨。找个 让你开心一辈子的人，才是爱情的目标。最好的，往往就是在你身边最久的。有时候，一个人可以在前一分钟，很爱很爱你，后一分钟就变得不爱了，原因永远不会出现，只能傻傻的接受。所以,选爱人不需要太多标准,只要这三样:不骗你,不伤害你,和陪着你...　而这样的一个人，很难找到吧。我所遇到的爱情，都只是一个圆圈，一开始很好，新鲜，快乐，很多爱，要到终点时，另一方终会累了、觉得不新鲜了、没话题说了。就这样，兜完了一圈，结束了。我相信另一方也会开始新的一‘圈’，不停的重复，直到一天成熟了，长大了，明白了什么是爱，想安定下来了，才会停止兜圈圈，那时候已是责任的爱，不时会说闷，没新鲜感的爱。这正是我要的爱。